I'm sorry things are moving so slow. Best thing I can tell is try again and if nothing move on. Does sound crazy to let a person go over not kissing, but you gotta do what you gotta. No I do like her so I'm not going away. But I just don't want to be here forever for something that may not work out. I meant for it to mean that if I wait forever just to get solid signs she likes me i.
Why are all the other guys saying she isn't interested but you say she still could be? If she was really attracted to me, wouldn't she have done the kiss?
Well like I said, it doesn't mean that she doesn't like you. Perhaps she wasn't ready for it. Dude us girls control ourselves when we want something serious I wouldn't kiss on a first date if I like the guy and see that he's got potential!! Simply because I like him that much and don't want him to think I'm an easy girl. But if she was interested, why wouldn't she kiss when I went for it?
To me it seems like she isn't attracted because of that. And she may say yes to a second date, but if she isn't attracted, aren't I just wasting my time?
I wouldn't kiss on a first date no matter how attracted I was. Well said, and sometimes when girls are so attracted and want something more serious they wouldn't kiss on the first date. It's just a kiss though! It's not like your signing a contract that you are getting into a relationship with him.
Just a kiss to show you enjoyed the night I mean now I'm sitting her wondering if she sees me as relationship material or just a friend. Well, it's just something I don't do. I know a lot of girls who don't do that on the first date. I've noticed that whenever I kiss a guy on the first date we have sex earlier, and I think kissing earlier in the relationship sets you up for that. Not that I have anything against sex, but maybe she's not interested in that kind of relationship yet.
You're probably the same anon on a different account. Just because I didn't find a slut doesn't mean I don't have "game". Your logic is just as bad as the other anon's grammar. You guys would be great together--maybe take his idea and go out to the gay bar with him because I'm sure you'd get along great.
And wouldn't you rather get in a relationship with a girl that has morals? You would be stupid to say no, because she would cheat on you in a heartbeat with the black guy on your block.
Then why would she text me after saying she had a great time and will "see what's going on in my meaning her busy schedule next week :p"? She telling you that in a week she might have time to see you agian I understand you are young but is it really that hard to see the signs. Lets reword my question Woman are a strange beast honestly from what you said it sounds to me like she's not interested and is trying to spare your feelings.
Then again I got no idea I could be dead wrong, just my impression. If she says yes to a second date, what would you then think? Would you then think she is interested? I feel awkward. We had a great first date and I felt like I should give it a try. We hugged and I tried for the kiss but she said "no not yet". I text her afterward saying I had fun and whatever and that we should go out again if she wants and she responded and said she had a great time also and will see what her schedule looks like next week.
I said I'd call her sometime to see and she said that sounds good. But what am I supposed to think? And how am I supposed to get my first kiss then?
I don't want to try too soon and get rejected again but I don't want to wait forever just for a first kiss to know I am doing things right Have any girls here said no to a kiss the first time but actually gone though and gotten in a relationship with that same guy?
Share Facebook. Girl rejects a kiss, now what? Add Opinion. Konnour Xper 3. This seems like a classic - the date goes perfect but no kiss. Some women tend to date even those men they ain't attracted to because for them it's more fun than just sitting at home alone, and especially - if the guy covers the expenses. If she would like you then there would be no reason at all why she wouldn't kiss you.
Name one reason why a woman who is attracted to you would not even kiss you after a great first date. I really wanna hear something. Yes - there is an unwritten rule "no sex on a first date" as it may compromise their female dignity, but it definitely does not apply about kissing. It's ridiculous! You know what you have to do? Find another chick. Forget about this one and don't even consider asking her out again - because then you would compromise your male dignity!
Move too fast and you risk startling her; move too slow and you may seem too passive. Continue holding her hand or touching her arm or shoulder. Be gentle. Make sure that if you're touching her, you're only applying light pressure.
Being too forceful or holding her too firmly might make her uncomfortable, or show that you're moving too fast. Your kiss should be calm and confident, and not too fast. There will be plenty more time to continue kissing, especially if you ask her if she wants to continue. If she pulls away first, don't lean into her and try to prolong a kiss.
Keep your hands on her waist, arm or hands. Don't let your hands wander to places that she may be uncomfortable having you touch. Just because she's agreed to kiss doesn't mean that she is ready to go any further. If she starts to touch you in return, and you feel that she's interested in doing more, break off the kiss and ask her. She'll be glad that you respect her feelings, and she'll be able to tell you if there's anything she wants to do next.
Create more tension by letting go first. She may go back in for another kiss or tell you that she wants you to kiss her again: if so, go for it. The moment after a kiss can be a bit awkward, but asking if she's alright will give you an idea of what she's thinking about or feeling.
If she says that she's alright, and is happy, you've done a good job with your first kiss. Try not to make things awkward by getting flustered or asking for more physical contact. Stay relaxed, continue talking, or let her go for the night if you've walked her home. If she says she's not alright, don't be upset. She may not have felt a connection with you, or she may have been uncomfortable with the kiss. She might let you know the reasons that she felt uncomfortable.
Listen to what she says, and respect her feelings about the physical contact. Be respectful if she turns you down. Girls sometimes turn down a kiss or cut off a situation for their own reasons. She not be emotionally ready, or she might not be attracted to you. No matter what, always respect her decision. Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered.
If either of you makes a mistake, laugh it off and keep the situation feeling fun and relaxed. Helpful 1 Not Helpful 0. Never try to force a girl to kiss you.
You could end up in a lot of trouble, and may tarnish your reputation. Helpful 68 Not Helpful 9. Related wikiHows How to. How to. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. More References 3. About This Article. Co-authored by:. Co-authors: Updated: August 29, Categories: Kissing. Italiano: Baciare una Ragazza senza timore di Essere Rifiutati. Thanks to all authors for creating a page that has been read 1,, times. I plan on taking her to the street fair and taking her under a lamplight to kiss on the lips.
This article helped me feel more confident with my approach, and I am now comfortable going in. Did this article help you? Is this someone you think you can be, or even want to be, and can you change? If bad guys get all the breaks, do you want to work for these people? Or — and sometimes it does have to be this, sorry — are you portraying the right image to your colleagues? Rejection stings so hard because it feels personal, but this is a pretty shortsighted way of looking at it. There are so many variables keeping you from the things you really want.
No shit. Rejection is like a warning, or an inoculation. You have to feel it, and it has to burn, so you can fine-tune any future decision you make.
Onward, guys. Get dumped with dignity Broken hearts do the stupidest things.
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